How to Have a Sexy Valentine's Day

Valentine's Day is the perfect opportunity for couples to get adventurous in the bedroom. While dinner dates and flowers are nice, we like something with a little more spice! Check out these 5 cheeky Valentine’s Day (or night) ideas to ignite your romantic flame.


There’s nothing more soothing and sensual than a couple’s massage. Take the heat up a level and try a Japanese-inspired Nuru massage, a form of erotic massage with full body contact while both partners are nude and coated with gel (traditionally made from Nori seaweed!) This is a great way to relax and connect with your partner. If you’re worried about the mess, the playdrop mat is perfect for protecting your bed, carpets or sofa from oils and gels.


sexy snow white roleplay

Photo by Cristian Jako

Always wanted to act out your wildest fantasies but need a little costume for confidence? Role playing is a great way to get out of your comfort zone, even if just for that one day a year. We love a kinky take on a Disney princess (or prince)!

Bring out the Bubbles

female couple in bubble bath

Photo by Karolina Grabowska

Whether your definition of bubbles is Champagne or a long, hot soak in the tub, both are equally as sexy (and relaxing) for Valentine’s Day. Draw your partner a bath and pour them a glass - we love this Lavender-scented soak from L’Occitane. Why not ask each other some sexy questions that are sure to get your juices flowing both in and out of the tub. 

Sexy Gift Giving

Want to buy your partner a sex toy but not sure which one to choose? Check out our best sex toys post for some inspiration! Personally, we think you can’t go wrong with a classic vibrator. Pair that with a playdrop sex mat for double the gift giving!



bdsm flogging and handcuffs


Another great way to use the playdrop sex mat on Valentine's Day is by incorporating some light BDSM play. Use the playdrop mat as a surface for your partner to lay on while you tie them up with soft ropes or use a blindfold for an added element of surprise. You can also use the mat for impact play, such as spanking or flogging, as it provides a comfortable surface for your partner to lay on while also protecting your bedding.

Remember, communication is key when it comes to exploring BDSM or any other new sexual activities. Make sure to discuss your boundaries and desires with your partner before trying anything new. The most important thing is to make sure you both are comfortable and consenting.

Order your playdrop mat for Valentine’s Day (or any time of year) today. Now available in light gray and navy blue!